March 30-Sunday of the Fourth Week of Lent

But the LORD said to Samuel: 
“Do not judge from his appearance or from his lofty stature, 
because I have rejected him.
Not as man sees does God see, 
because man sees the appearance 
but the LORD looks into the heart.

I Samuel 16: 7

Here are the complete readings for Sunday, March 30, 2025.

(“Jesus gives sight to a blind man by birth” Miniature by Cristoforo De Predis)

What are the emotional walls we use to protect ourselves from pain that we need to tear down so that we can see and hear properly? Repentance can be a daily activity, not only to confess sins but to reflect on who we are and have been over the course of the day. Besides thinking about what we’ve done wrong, can we think about the moments when we have shown gratitude and when have we given other people our full attention? Sometimes this process of contemplation can take time and the immediate results unclear. Consider the transformation of the man born blind. While he received his physical sight immediately from Jesus, the man’s understanding of who he was and who Jesus was took time. Gradually, he became more and more aware of who he was to be, and faced the adversity that came with this decision with increasing courage and confidence. As people who practice faith through both action and contemplation, let us remember that conversions can and do happen in their own time. At its core, conversion is the joyful realization that we are loved and are capable of loving in communion and service with God.

At times you will discover
that God’s ways are not your ways,
and God’s thoughts are not your thoughts.
When this happens,
try to surrender yourself trustingly
into the arms of your Parent God,
who knows you,
understands you,
and loves you.

Perhaps you can repeat
with your Founder
this simple prayer
which he cherished:
O Lord, I cannot understand your ways,
but I must adore them.
– The Fundamental Principles of the Xaverian Brothers

God, the path forward is so clearly lit by you. When I go off course, help me to be honest and not blame my failings on someone else without first looking deep in my own heart to find the source of my troubles. You give us the gift of your presence, which is what we need. Inspired by this confidence, may I step forward to be present to others who find themselves lost or alone.

Amen

March 23-Sunday of the Third Week of Lent

In those days, in their thirst for water,
the people grumbled against Moses,
saying, “Why did you ever make us leave Egypt?
Was it just to have us die here of thirst 
with our children and our livestock?”
So Moses cried out to the LORD, 
“What shall I do with this people?
a little more and they will stone me!”
The LORD answered Moses,
“Go over there in front of the people, 
along with some of the elders of Israel, 
holding in your hand, as you go, 
the staff with which you struck the river.
I will be standing there in front of you on the rock in Horeb.
Strike the rock, and the water will flow from it 
for the people to drink.”
This Moses did, in the presence of the elders of Israel.
The place was called Massah and Meribah, 
because the Israelites quarreled there
and tested the LORD, saying,
“Is the LORD in our midst or not?”

Exodus 17: 3-7

Here are the complete readings for Sunday, March 23, 2025

(“Christ and the Samaritan Woman” by Ivan Mestrovic)

In the narratives in Exodus and in the Gospel of John, people struggle with their preconceptions of what they need and how they will find it. Both stories focus the need for water, an essential human need. How does the water symbolize the need for loving connection between human beings and God, without which we become thirsty, then parched, then desperate? In both stories, the people receive a revelation about the source of their suffering, and the simple but difficult decisions they need to make in order to repair their fractured relationships. Most importantly, they are guided by God through patience and compassion, both of which we are called to be to our neighbors who hunger and thirst.

As you prayerfully reflect on the past,
assess the present,
and ponder the future with one another,
be considerate of this history
and of this ministry.
Yet, like Ryken,
foster an attitude of openness
to the needs of the Church and your world,
and a willingness to follow Christ
wherever He leads.
 – The Fundamental Principles of the Xaverian Brothers

God, you know our hearts and souls, and give us everything we need. Help us to reflect on how the ordinary needs of our neighbors affect us and our journey of life. May we be open to who you call us to be today and beyond. Give us the courage to be open to the challenges and opportunities of your discipleship.

Amen

March 15-The First Saturday of Lent

But I say to you, love your enemies,
and pray for those who persecute you,
that you may be children of your heavenly Father,
for he makes his sun rise on the bad and the good,
and causes rain to fall on the just and the unjust.
For if you love those who love you, what recompense will you have?
Do not the tax collectors do the same?
And if you greet your brothers and sisters only,
what is unusual about that?
Do not the pagans do the same?
So be perfect, just as your heavenly Father is perfect.”

Matthew 5: 44-48

Here are the complete readings for Saturday, March 15, 2025

(“Moses and the Fire of Sinai” by Darius Gilmont)

When I read this passage from Matthew, in the same chapter as the Beatitudes, I experienced the discomfort of recognizing that God does not operate on a quid pro quo basis. If I do good to others, and pray to God, should I then expect material prosperity as result? Jesus assures us that this is irrelevant in a relationship with God. God gives the sun and the rain to people who love and to people who hate. What is the reward is the relationship itself, not simply in some far off future, but here and now. To make the relationship more challenging and more rewarding, God asks us to provide that sunshine and nourishing rain to those who are indifferent to our feelings or who have hurt us. If we pray for those who persecute us, at the very least we can recognize that these persons share a most important quality with us-a shared humanity. There was once a wise teacher at my school who told the young teachers to pray for the names in their gradebook each day. He said, as much as these young people could sometimes be rude and try his patience, they would become more than names and numbers when he reminded himself through prayer how they reveal God’s image and likeness.

You are called then by your Founder
to enter into a true mutual sharing
with your brothers and sisters.
This sharing will demand of you
an opening and a giving of yourself to them
at many levels,
and a ready acceptance of each of them
in all their sinful and graced humanity. – The Fundamental Principles of the Xaverian Brothers

Loving God, you call us to renew your covenant with us each day. Help us to act as Jesus would towards those we would rather not encounter. May we recognize your light in them just as we draw strength from the warmth we find in our loved ones. Remind us that our efforts may not result in measurable success, and that what matters is that we have shared our belief that they matter.

Amen

March 14-Friday of the First Week of Lent

If the wicked man turns away from all the sins he committed, 
    if he keeps all my statutes and does what is right and just,
    he shall surely live, he shall not die. 
None of the crimes he committed shall be remembered against him;
    he shall live because of the virtue he has practiced. 
Do I indeed derive any pleasure from the death of the wicked?
    says the Lord GOD. 
Do I not rather rejoice when he turns from his evil way
    that he may live?

Ezekiel 18: 21-22

Here are the complete readings for Friday, March 14, 2025

(“Repentance” by Elisheva Nesis)

Consider the image above. The person clutches their garment with the left hand, perhaps out of fear. The space is claustrophobic. But look at the person’s eyes. They are not downcast, they gaze with anticipation and hope. They hope for freedom from whatever prison they find themselves at the moment. When we think about conversion and repentance, it can unburden us from our faults and and the shame that comes from these actions. This alone is freeing for the mind and soul. Can we also look at repentance as the opportunity to be freed from the isolation that comes from turning inward in fear when we are invited to join in communion? Can we be free to open ourselves to loving relationships with full knowledge of who we are, with our many gifts and imperfections that make us very ordinarily…human?

In this shared faith of the community
you will experience
the ongoing revelation of Jesus.
I no longer call you slaves,
for a master does not confide in his slaves;
now I call you friends.
You will find
your love and friendship
within the community
one of the chief joys
with which God blesses you,
and a most powerful means of evangelization.
– The Fundamental Principles of the Xaverian Brothers

God, your forgiveness and invitation to relationship are so profound. We cannot understand the depths of your generosity, but we celebrate that your invitation is constant, daily, and eternal. Help us share this good news with the people we encounter who feel unloved or incapable of being loved. Inspired by your confidence in us, may we be messengers of hope and freedom to cast away despair by helping people open up the windows to their souls.

Amen

March 13-Thursday of the First Week of Lent

Jesus said to his disciples:
“Ask and it will be given to you;
seek and you will find;
knock and the door will be opened to you.
For everyone who asks, receives; and the one who seeks, finds;
and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.
Which one of you would hand his son a stone
when he asked for a loaf of bread,

or a snake when he asked for a fish?
If you then, who are wicked,
know how to give good gifts to your children,
how much more will your heavenly Father give good things
to those who ask him.

“Do to others whatever you would have them do to you.
This is the law and the prophets.”

Matthew 7: 7-12

Here are the complete readings for Thursday, March 13, 2025

(“The Scorpion” by Stanley Spencer)

I’ve had to learn to be assertive over time, and I suspect many others have as well. I don’t have a problem asking for help, or saying “I don’t know”, but asking for what I want or need is a skill I’ve had to develop. Given the human condition though, whether one is outwardly confident to speak one’s mind or not, it is likely universal that we all have difficulty discerning what to ask for when we ask for what we need. Discernment is not embedded into western culture. It does not fit our rapid pace of life, which we have been shown as the norm since early childhood. How can we take intentional time for quiet discernment, and to meditate about what we are really experiencing or longing for in the present moment? Developing that habit of reflection is a skill that can lead to greater insight about why we feel or act a certain way, and how to more accurately ask for help in being closer to who we want to be. I think it is helpful to look at discernment as both an action for a purpose and a moment for its own sake. We are then less likely to evaluate the discernment on what we may have achieved and more so on the gratitude that we experience in the process.

Above all else remember
that your God is forever faithful.
In the words of the prophet God says:
Can a mother forget her infant
or be without tenderness
for the child of her womb?
I will never forget you.
I have branded you
on the palms of my hands.
For your part,
God asks you in return
to make the word of God your home.
– The Fundamental Principles of the Xaverian Brothers

God, we are grateful to always be in your presence, and thank you for welcoming us to your divine mystery. When we are not sure of the way to go, help us to know what we don’t know. May we then trust that in striving for what is good and true, we grow ever closer to you and feel the connection you give to us as neighbors and strangers as companions on the journey.

Amen

March 12-Wednesday of the First Week of Lent

At the judgment the men of Nineveh will arise with this generation
and condemn it,
because at the preaching of Jonah they repented,
and there is something greater than Jonah here.”

Luke 11: 31-32

Here are the complete readings for Wednesday, March 12, 2025

(“The Sign of Jonah” Icon from orthodox_icons)

Jonah was lucky. The only real sign for us is the reality of our own mortality. With that in mind, how shall we best use the days in front of us now, starting with where we are today? In other words, how do we differentiate between what is within our control and what is not, and then be at peace with our choices? At the end of the day, can we better judge as to whether the day was good or bad? What changes did we make? What acts of courage took place? Did we recognize instances of weakness or disengagement? Did we make amends for a moral failing, or give thanks for an unexpected grace? Hopefully, at the end of the day we can give thanks that we are continuing a journey of becoming more like whom we really are.

Ryken looked upon his original vocation
as being a conversion
through which he
fell in love
with the service of God.
Yet, he too,
came to the understanding
that a continual conversion is needed.
Be patient, therefore, with yourself and with God.
– The Fundamental Principles of the Xaverian Brothers

God, teach me to understand what I do not know. Give me the questions to ask and the courage to ask them. Remind me that each day is different, but always filled with your presence and your grace. Thank you for the opportunity to change so I may be more of the person you intend me to be.

Amen

March 11-Tuesday of the First Week of Lent

Just as from the heavens
the rain and snow come down
And do not return there
till they have watered the earth,
making it fertile and fruitful,
Giving seed to the one who sows
and bread to the one who eats,
So shall my word be
that goes forth from my mouth;
It shall not return to me void,
but shall do my will,
achieving the end for which I sent it.

Isaiah 55:10-11

Here are the complete readings for Tuesday, March 11, 2025

(“The Word was God” painting by Carol Ogden)

Think about a selfish time in your life. Maybe it was when you were young, or an adolescent, or perhaps last week. More specifically, consider a time when you did not recognize your selfishness immediately, and you were either indifferent to others you may have hurt, or were convinced your actions were justified? What has made you change your perspective? Who has helped you indirectly to get to a place when you can unpack your mistakes and rebuild them as wisdom? To whom then do you pass on this wisdom, and how do you communicate it? What do you do when the person’s response does not demonstrate that they have accepted your advice? Does it matter?

As you prayerfully reflect on the past,
assess the present,
and ponder the future with one another,
be considerate of this history
and of this ministry.
 – The Fundamental Principles of the Xaverian Brothers

God, my mistakes are legion and my selfishness leaves me embarrassed. Lovingly put in my place, I am grateful that you forgive and do not allow me to forget the transformation that has taken place in my heart. Thank you for reminding me that your kingdom is not some far off place, it is here in our midst. Give us all nourishment, so that we may plant seeds that will grow and bear good fruit to feed your children.

Amen

March 10-Monday of the First Week of Lent

Then the righteous will answer him and say,
‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you,
or thirsty and give you drink?
When did we see you a stranger and welcome you,
or naked and clothe you?
When did we see you ill or in prison, and visit you?’
And the king will say to them in reply,
‘Amen, I say to you, whatever you did
for one of these least brothers of mine, you did for me.’

Matthew 25: 37-40

Here are the complete readings for Monday, March 10, 2025

(“Last Judgment” Mosaic Sant’Apollinaire Nuovo in Ravenna, Italy)

We are more powerful than we think. This is not about our potential, it is about the influence we radiate outward right now. What we do in our interactions each day is more consequential than we know. This passage is a not so subtle reminder about the good we are capable of sharing, especially to those who have been pushed to the margins or put in exile because they were judged to be “other.” On this day, how can we more aware of the opportunities to be fully present to our companions and to strangers, especially when we are on the cusp of being distracted from these ordinary but graced encounters?

You have promised
to follow Christ, the poor man,
totally given in love to God
and for all people everywhere,
and whose loving obedience led Him
to death on the cross.
– The Fundamental Principles of the Xaverian Brothers

God, we thank you for the gift of your presence. You are an eternal mystery and a constant companion. Help us draw deeper into this great unknown, leaving behind our fears and insecurities. May we recognize the conflicts and dangers in life for what they are and rejoice in the daily gifts to be found in your creation. In our prayers, may we ask not to be spared from unpleasantness, but be able to move forward and onward trusting that you are with us as you always have.

Amen

Don’t Miss the Eternal Encounters Right Now

Today is the last day of this cycle of Ordinary Time. Tomorrow, the season of Lent commences with the observance of Ash Wednesday. That will be tomorrow. Let us not forget the grace filled ordinariness of today. The readings today suggest wisdom and happiness occur when we place ourselves and our hearts in service of God and those we meet on our mundane day to day encounters. Giving oneself away is indeed a gift.

Next week this platform will offer prayers and meditations on the daily readings and spiritual practices for use during the season of Lent. Much gratitude for everyone who viewed, read, or commented on this blog during the season of Ordinary Time.

Here are the readings for Tuesday, March 4 from the Book of Sirach and the Gospel of Mark.

(painting above “Suffer little Children to Come to Me” by Rembrandt)

Read pages 24 and 25 of the Xaverian Charism Project of the Xaverian Brothers.

Read the obituary for Brother Carlos Magruder, CFX on pages 562 and 563 of the Xaverian Menology.

 

(Above photo of Brother Carlos Magruder CFX from”The Tower”-Mount Saint Joseph High School yearbook)

  1. The words in the Book of Sirach and Jesus’ plea in the Gospel of Mark reflect the call not just to patience and temperance, but finding joy in one’s place even if we feel we are not moving ahead as we feel we should. How does the phrase “the last shall be first” translate into day to day living, and not just an eschatological expectation for after we die?
  2. Consider the career path of Br. Carlos Magruder. He clearly didn’t stand still and was active until he was very old. Yet how did he still model this disposition of turning towards God and being open to the presence of God wherever he was and whatever he was doing?

A Thousand Acquaintances

In the Seventh Week of Ordinary Time, the first readings shift to meditations from the Book of Sirach on wisdom and on the mysterious Wisdom that is God, spoken in gentle but firm parlance of a parent passing on advice to a child, especially one going through transitions in growth or into adulthood. In the Gospel, Jesus reveals to his friends and the crowds about what it means to be fully human, which is to embrace the joy of emptying oneself of the pretenses of status caused by well-meaning but distracting ambition.

Do we need to be put in our place before we can trust God and our loved ones? Consider the role of humility and vulnerability needed to open ourselves to others as we truly are. How do the Scripture passages caution us about the sometimes insidious nature of the human condition and how we can betray those we profess to love or respect?

Here are the readings for Friday, February 28 from the Book of Sirach and from the Gospel of Mark.

(Painting above “Shapes of Fear” by Maynard Dixon)

Read pages 20 and 21 of the Xaverian Charism Project of the Xaverian Brothers.

(Above photo of Brother Alexius Vanderwee, CFX: First Provincial in the United States-Xaverian Brothers)

  1. The Scriptures reveal some difficult truths about the selfishness that may lie dormant in us. In reading these passages, especially from Sirach, how do you process when these tendencies arise in you, and how do you respond?
  2. Take some time to read about the counter-cultural nature of the “ordinary” in the Xaverian Charism Project. Why is such a simple term so hard to embrace, even for a prayerful person?
  3. Why did Ruusbroec and Ryken believe there was hope for people to recognize the “ordinary” in their journeys in life?